Self-Care Matters: 7-Day Mini Challenge
Self-Care Matters: Take the 7-day mini challenge and be good to yourself this week. Set up a habit for lifelong wellness.
You’ve probably heard the term “self-care” used a lot lately. It’s become a popular buzzword in the media and in personal development circles. However, you still may be unclear on what it means. While the concept does involve taking care of yourself, it actually goes much deeper. Read on to learn what self-care is, why it matters and how to get started doing it this week.
Day 1 Why Self-Care Matters & Super Simple Ways To Treat Yourself
About Why Self-Care Matters
Self-care covers a lot of areas with regard to caring for yourself. It involves nurturing your body, mind and spirit. It focuses on building yourself up so that your internal resources don’t become depleted.
Essentially, self-care is being as good to yourself as you would be to someone you care about.
It requires you to
show yourself some compassion and encourages you to be vulnerable with others,
asking for help you when you need it. What doesn’t fall under the umbrella of
self-care are self-destructive coping mechanisms such as using drugs, drinking,
gambling or retail therapy. These things only make you feel good in the
lots of benefits to practicing self-care. Embracing this concept can be
difficult for those who’ve always placed emphasis on the welfare of others.
However, giving all your energy to those around you without filling your own
back up leaves you depleted and empty. That’s no way to live. Instead, spending
time and effort on yourself rejuvenates and energizes you. Taking time to
indulge in your own interests demonstrates your worth, leading to improved
self-esteem and a more positive outlook on the world. It teaches you a lot
about yourself and provides you with insight into what you need to be the best
version of yourself. Self-care helps you better cope with stress and to
prioritize what’s important to you. You’ll be better able to take care of
others when you also take time to meet your own needs.
countless ways to add self-care into your routine. The key is to choose
activities that are most enjoyable to you and provide you with the most benefits.
Going for a walk in nature is great for those who enjoy the outdoors. Other
forms of exercise like yoga, running or going to the gym work well, too.
Spending time with friends can be rejuvenating, but so can saying no. Allowing
yourself to decline invitations or favors when you’re feeling run-down is a big
part of caring for yourself. Treating yourself to a favorite, affordable
indulgence like a movie, manicure or ice cream cone are all good examples. As
is taking a bath or meditating. These are just a few of the ways you can easily
incorporate self-care into your life.
Now you know
what self-care is and what it’s important. You’ve also got some ideas of how to
get started, so you’re well on your way to adding this useful practice to your
Day 2 Start & End Your Day with a Little Self-Care
Like any new
habit, adding self-care into your life can seem kind of tricky. You probably
wonder how you’ll manage to find time to do anything extra for yourself, let
alone how you’ll actually remember to do these things. One of the best ways to
get started is to build your activities into predictable parts of your day. In
order to make something a habit, it has to happen regularly. Keep reading, and
I’ll show you some tricks to making self-care a routine part of your life.
thing that will help you in creating your self-care rituals is to choose
activities that are meaningful to you and that you enjoy. This is your
practice, so you want to be sure it’s customized in order to get the most out
of it. Consider making a list of things that help you to feel relaxed,
peaceful, excited or happy. These activities should be able to be done in a
short amount of time and easily fit into your life without special equipment or
tools. At least as you begin your practice, the things you choose to do should
be as simple as possible.
Fit It In
add your self-care rituals to the most convenient parts of your day. Choose
times that are already somewhat flexible so that incorporating something new
into that space will be less stressful. Many people go with morning or evening
routines, right when they wake up and before going to sleep each night. Getting
up fifteen minutes earlier than usual and setting aside a window during the
usual night-time schedule are usually things most folks can do. However, maybe
designating your daily lunch break as your self-care time might work better for
you. Consider activities like writing a gratitude journal entry before bed,
listening to music while having your morning coffee or going for a short walk
over your lunch hour. Trial and error may be required, but find a moment to
call your own every day.
It’s best to
come up with a routine that works for you and stick to it. Committing to a
particular schedule will help you to create a habit and ensures that you get
the self-care you need. However, try to cut yourself some slack. Some days are
more hectic than others. You may not be able to fit in your anticipated
self-care activity, and that’s okay. Tomorrow is a new day, and you can try
again. Soon, you’ll find yourself wanting to take part in these rituals, and
getting back on track will be easy.
the practice of regular self-care doesn’t have to be difficult. Making a few
adjustments to your existing schedule can free up some space in your day.
Choose things that will refresh you and that are simple in nature will make
getting started a breeze.
Day 3 Try Something New Today
habits and adding activities to your calendar help increase your chances of
sticking with your new routine. Another way to keep things interesting is to
treat yourself to things you’ve always wanted to do. Adding new and novel
experiences to your self-care routine is like giving yourself a little gift
every day. It’s a great way to stay motivated to do things to care for
physical care of yourself in a pampering way makes us feel good. Pampering is a
go-to for many people when it comes to their self-care routine. Think of
something you’ve never done before. It doesn’t have to be expensive. A small
act of indulgence can have the same effect as an extravagant one. Maybe
consider scheduling a manicure if you’ve never had one. A bubble bath with
candles can be soothing if this is something you don’t do very often. If your
budget will allow, a spa day with a friend could rejuvenate your body and
Most of us
don’t buy ourselves presents very often or even give ourselves little treats.
You can change that starting now. Think of something within your budget you’ve
been wanting for a while now. Then give yourself permission to buy it. Maybe
it’s that snazzy pair of shoes you’ve had your eye on or the cell phone upgrade
that would make your life easier. Giving yourself one gift, no matter how
small, can be a boost to your self-worth.
really doesn’t have to be on a grand scale. The tiniest gestures can be the
most meaningful. Indulging in small free or low-cost treats allows you to spoil
yourself more often. What are some little things you’ve never done for yourself
that you can start adding to your life today? Have you ever bought yourself
flowers? Give it a try. You’ll get a boost every time you see that beautiful
bouquet on your table or desk. Think of your favorite food item, the one you
have on special occasions. Why not make one day a week a little more special by
trying a new version of it? For example, commit yourself to tasting a new truffle
each week at your favorite chocolate shop. Get creative with it.
experiences to your self-care routine keeps things interesting and can also
help make them more meaningful. Novelty will also expand your world and enrich
your life. Plus, it’s just fun!
Day 4 Make
A List Of 5 Simple Self-Care Routines
Beneficial habits like self-care often go by the wayside during stressful times. It can be difficult to focus on anything but the bare minimum when life gets hard. The fact is, though, that these are the days when you most need to take care of yourself. One way to have a self-care toolkit to help you out during these instances.
Having a list of self-care routines can make it easier for you to implement them when needed. There are some other tricks you can employ to get you through the tough times, too. Keep reading, and I’ll share them with you.
Make a List
with your self-care backup plan. This is a list of at least five activities you
can easily fit in your life during the most stressful periods. Having such a
reminder on-hand will let you gain the benefits of caring for yourself without
having to think about it too much. This list can include simple reminders like
go to bed early so you get enough sleep, eat nourishing food to keep your
energy up or ask for help you need it because these are all things you might
forget when you’ve got a ton on your plate. During times of trouble, the very
basic foundations of self-care can be the most important.
Make a Care
to boost your chances of keeping self-care at the focus during hard times is to
prepare a care package ahead of time. This can include some of your favorite
little indulgences like a good book, herbal teas, facial mask, fuzzy slippers
and classical CD. Include anything that brings you joy. Being able to reach for
this package when you’re stressed can mean the world and make a huge difference
to your outlook.
look bleak, you may require a bit of help to get back on track. That’s why it’s
a good idea to reach out to trusted friends and family now to enlist their help
for the future. Talk to your closest confidantes and let them know you would
like them to always encourage your self-care routine. Share with them the benefits
it’s provided you and tell them you’d appreciate their assistance if they see
you aren’t caring for yourself as well as you should be. Sometimes those who
know us best can see things we don’t. When your crew knows to look out for you
in this regard, they can reinforce your self-care needs during times of stress.
to plan now can make maintaining your self-care routine easier in the future.
Always remember it’s during the hardest times that you need to nurturing
yourself the most.
Day 5 Go Cheap
people get the wrong idea about self-care. They think they have to be deserving
of it. They feel like it’s splurging to do something good for yourself. It can
seem extravagant. I’d like to change that mindset today. Self-care is something
you deserve. Everyone does. It benefits us all, along with those around us,
when we put our own well-being at the forefront. You can’t take care of others
when your own well-being is suffering. Let’s take a look at some free and
low-cost ways you can care for yourself.
Take a Time
just a little bit of alone time is all you need to feel rejuvenated. So why not
give yourself a time out? Lock yourself in your room with a nice cup of tea.
Listen to some quiet music. Just sit still and think for a bit. It’s a luxury
we all can afford.
Self-Care Matters So Go Ahead and Waste Some
feel pressured to be productive all the time. Being busy is a sign of worth and
accomplishment. However, it really doesn’t have to be that way. Just kicking
back and doing nothing is important to recharging our batteries. Let yourself
have some down time to do something frivolous like binge on your favorite
Netflix show, take a nap or just sit and pet your cat. You deserve it.
Even if you
don’t consider yourself a writer, journaling can be a very therapeutic
activity. Jotting down what you’re grateful for has been proven to be
beneficial to well-being. It can also be energizing to simply do a brain dump
in which you write down all the things that are floating around in your head.
Jotting down dreams for the future might inspire and motivate you to take
action. Give it a try.
Reach Out to
is a crucial part of self-care. Even introverts benefit from interpersonal
connection. Humans aren’t meant to be isolated. Pick up the phone and call a
friend you haven’t talked to in a while. Sit down and Skype with your favorite
internet pal. Meeting up in person for a walk together or a cup of coffee is
even better. Connecting to others might just provide the spark you’ve been
Self-Care Matters So Change Your
A change of
scenery can be a wonderful source of renewal, and it doesn’t have to cost a
lot. Just heading out to walk in your neighborhood might help when you’re
feeling stir-crazy in your home. If you’re able to afford it, a low-cost
staycation to a nearby location for a day or two is a fun way to switch things
up. You’ll be surprised what this change of perspective can do for you.
are just a few of the countless ways you can indulge in self-care without
spending much money, perhaps they’re just the jumpstart you need to begin
exploring this concept. You truly do deserve to spend time, energy and effort
on your own well-being.
Day 6 No Guilt Allowed
There are a lot of complex reasons for this within our society. Despite what anyone else may say, you deserve to focus on your own needs. In fact, it’s good for those you love when you take care of yourself. You truly can’t fill another’s cup if your own is empty. So, I’d like to take this opportunity to emphasize why you shouldn’t feel guilty for practicing self-care and encourage you to do so in every area of your life.
Self-Care Matters and It’s Not Selfish
First and foremost, you must understand that taking time to care for yourself is not selfish in any way. It may be hard to get past the mindset that the needs of others are more important than your own, but overcoming this mindset is essential to allowing yourself to adequately meet your own needs. Care isn’t a zero-sum concept. When you care for yourself, it doesn’t have to mean you don’t care about others.
Self-Care Matters and It’s
isn’t a luxury; it’s a necessity. It really is like the airplane air mask
comparison. You have to ensure you can breathe before you can help those around
you. If you’re tired, rundown and overwhelmed all the time, you absolutely
cannot give your best self to others. You also can’t offer yourself the very
best. Remember that self-care isn’t selfish.
Self-Care Matters and It Sets a
If you’re a
parent, investing in self-care is not only good for you, it sets a good example
for your kids. Even if you don’t have children, taking the time to care for
yourself might be inspiring or motivational for those around you. In order for
a stigma to end, it has to be normalized. When more of us let the world around
us know why self-care matters, they may begin to change their minds about the
concept, as well.
Self-Care Matters and It Demands
It also sets
a precedent for how you expect others to treat you. When you demonstrate that
you value yourself and that you find worth investing time in yourself, they
will respond in kind. Learning to say no and set boundaries is good for your
relationships. It teaches others how you expect to be treated and makes it
clear that you see yourself as a priority. There’s no reason to feel guilty for
It will take
time to overcome a lifetime of message society has given you and you’ve
internalized. With practice, you can come to see the benefits of self-care and
that it doesn’t have to be something that causes guilt.
Day 7 Self-Care Matters From This Day Forward
a process. It requires practice and dedication if you want to make it stick.
Don’t get discouraged if it takes time to make this new concept a part of your
life. It’ll get easier, and you’ll probably find yourself craving your
self-care activities so much you’ll wonder how you ever lived without them.
However, there will inevitably be times that are busier or more stressful when
self-care may go by the wayside. If you find that happening, be sure to follow
these tips to continue to take care of yourself going forward.
Self-care Matters So Follow Your
get so busy that we find ourselves living on auto-pilot. That’s only natural
during hectic times, but it’s critical that you make an attempt to listen to
your instincts during these times to know whether you’re in need of a boost.
When you start to feel especially frazzled or fatigued, that’s not a cue to
double down and work harder. It’s your body and mind telling you that you need
a break. Listen to them. Along these lines, look for other unusual signs that
things are off balance with you such as irritability, eating poorly, losing
sleep or indulging in bad habits. These things are telling you to take care of
Self-Care Matters So Schedule It
A trick that
helps some people to fit self-care into their schedules when life gets busy is
to actually write it in their date book or calendar. Treat your self-care
commitments like any other appointment or event. Write down the time you’ll
start and finish. Try to be specific about the activity you’ll engage in. Doing
these things will increase the odds that you’ll actually follow through. It’s
easy to put yourself on the back burner when life gets crazy, but don’t forget
that these are the times you need self-care the most.
Self-Care Matters So Create a
self-care plan is crucial to maintaining your well-being. I shared some ideas
in a previous blog post about how to do this. Let’s review a bit, as it’s so
important to have a self-care toolkit at your disposal during life’s busiest
and most stressful periods. Keep your emergency self-care list and your care
package together so they’re easily accessed when you need them. You also make
sure there’s a list of trusted contacts to call when you might need some
self-care encouragement and accountability. Your tribe can provide the
motivation and support you need to take care of yourself.
word. Take time to assess your self-care needs regularly. This will also help
to keep you on track. Ask yourself once a week or so if you’re giving yourself
enough time and attention. Listen to your instincts. Make adjustments as
necessary. Self-care is an ongoing and evolving process. It requires your
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