Best Relationship Tip: Dating Ain't What It Used to Be
Best Relationship Tip: Things in the world around us have changed over the years and the dating scene is no exception. With the internet, speed dating, etc., dating and finding that right someone have gotten just a little easier, but harder all the same.
Best Relationship Tip:
The New Dating Scene
Now you can go online to many different websites and decide who you want to go out with and who you don't without even meeting them face to face. Each of you put in a blurb about yourself, what you like and don't like and then make a decision based on that small blurb. That's the easy part.
The hard part is that all you have to go on about someone is a short blurb. Online people can create any type of personality that they wish others to have about them. The worst part is that it doesn't have to be true. So really, you don't know exactly what you are getting into.
Even if you email back and forth with someone, trying to get to know them, you aren't really going to know who you are meeting up with when you do finally decide to meet. However, even if you meet someone face to face, do you ever really know that person? Sometimes, yes and sometimes no.
The best thing to do if you choose the online dating route is be very careful of who you strike up a conversation with to begin with. Some people are there are not really there to get a date. Some are there for purely evil reasons. Below are a few things you can do to help protect yourself:
- Never give out your address or personal information to them
- If/when you do decide to hook up with them, meet them in a central location. Never invite them to your home in the beginning.
- Let someone know where you are going and who you are going with. If for some reason that deviates throughout the date, make the call to your friend and let them know of the change of plan.
- Use your phone to take a selfie with your date and then text it to your friend. Not only do they need to know where you are, having a photo of the person could come in handy down the road.
- When you end the date and drive away, make sure you aren't being followed. Take a few different turns here and there and don't drive directly home. Make it hard or at least inconvenient for them to follow you.
Those are just a few things to help you feel and stay safe on those first few meetings until you are more comfortable with the person you have chosen.
The dating world has progressed at record speed and while there are many great stories that come out of online dating there are just as many that aren't so great. Don' t be one of the terrible stories. Keep dating, but also stay safe while you are doing it. Because dating ain't what it used to be!
Best Relationship Tip:
Why would you want help with relationships? Because relationships are
the central pillar of a happy and satisfying life, that's why. Whether
it's about making it work with a new partner, just enjoying a date,
putting things right after a spat, or dealing with insecurity, hypnosis
can really help you deal with the psychological and emotional issues
that arise in any relationship.
Nor is it just about partners/dates/spouses. Your family and social
links are just as important for your health and well being as your
connection with a 'significant other'. Life's so much better when you
can get on with your mom or dad, step mom or step dad, children or step
children, siblings or step siblings - and let's not even mention the
Whether you are currently dating, or in a long-term partnership,
browse our downloads to see if we can help you make more of the
relationships you treasure.
Best Relationship Tip:
Put the spark back in your relationship
Best Relationship Tip: What happens when the first flush of love passes
But after you've been together for a while, you start to notice that
the overwhelming nature of your love seems to have waned. You still love
your partner and are still committed but a sameness can creep in. Maybe
you find those enchanting little 'quirks' starting to grate or the
everyday grind and external pressures conspire to pull you out of your
private little world of love. You begin to wonder where the spark has
Best Relationship Tip: Cool times for once 'hot' relationships can be scary
It's easy to panic at this stage of a relationship. In the early
heady days of first love, you feel like you and your partner can
conquer anything with the power of your love. You feel as if you could
never tire of each other's company. So when dull days dawn, and
rows reverberate, and you wonder whatever happened to intimacy and sex,
it can feel as if the world is falling. Have you made a dreadful
mistake? Is it 'the end'?
Best Relationship Tip: Misplaced expectations about love lead to disappointment
Two major problems affect relationships. The first is the
unrealistic expectations we have of them. Some of that is natural to
'being in love'. It puts you on a high where you easily believe that you will always be able to keep the spark going in your relationship, because you love each other so much. But some of it comes from what we are fed about relationships by the romantic movies we watch or the books we read.
Best Relationship Tip: Good relationships need good 'gardeners' of love
The second difficulty in keeping relationships rewarding, satisfying
and fun is that we often don't do enough 'gardening'. We leave the
relationship to 'take care of itself'. And any gardener will tell you
that a garden left to itself will look lovely for a while and will then
gradually deteriorate into a tangle of weeds and scrub. A place you
wouldn't want to spend any time.
But just how do you set about 'cultivating' your relationship, ensuring that the flowers of love continue to bloom?
Best Relationship Tip: Hypnosis can help you put the spark back in your relationship
Put the spark back into your relationship is an audio hypnosis
session for lovers. Using powerful hypnotic techniques and
deploying the latest psychological understanding of what makes
relationships 'sparkle', this deeply relaxing session will take
you on a wonderful inner journey to the roots of your love.
As you, or you and your lover together, relax and enjoy listening to Put the spark back into your relationship,
you will rediscover what really makes your relationship special.
And as you go even deeper relaxed each time you listen, you will
find yourself effortlessly becoming a true gardener of love -
cherishing, nurturing, feeding, pruning and seeding the garden of
your relationship - and reveling in the beautiful blooms of love.
Download Put the spark back into your relationship and enjoy those wonderful powerful feelings of attraction once again.
More Relationship Advice and Tips!