The Causes of Stress: What's Stressing You Out?

The causes of stress are numerous and individual. Thank goodness, however, we are all born hard wired to pay attention to certain stimuli in the environment. This increased attention, or stress response, readies us for self-preservation. I was driving along the other day when suddenly a large rock flew up and hit my windshield. It was certainly an attention-getter! I instinctively blinked my eyes and braced the steering wheel. My heart leapt a beat as I gasped. So, when life throws a rock in your direction, you hope for a bit of good stress to wake you up and say, "Hello in there! You'd better pay attention to this!"

On other occasions when survival is not necessarily an issue, however, individual perception plays a major role. Why does public speaking make some people hyperventilate at the thought of it while others shine in the spotlight? Perception really does account for our realities. That's why it's important to have an understanding about what causes stress in your life.

Stress: 3 Main Categories

  • Acute - Short-term events, which do not last long but can have a lasting impact on us.
  • Episodic - Situations, which are also short-term, but that we find ourselves in regularly, such as rushing to work.
  • Chronic - Ongoing stresses, which last into the long-term, such as a chronic illness.

Common Causes of Stress


  • Injury              
  • Excessive drinking
  • Pain           
  • Recreational drug use
  • Sickness           
  • Lack of exercise
  • Poor nutrition      
  • Insufficient sleep


  • Negative thought patterns   
  • Perfectionism
  • Poor self-esteem       
  • Powerlessness
  • Past trauma           
  • Belief systems


  • Too much computer use      
  •   Inclement weather
  • Extreme temperatures       
  • Fluorescent lighting
  • Allergens in air       
  • Noise pollution

Stressful Life Events

Everyday life presents us with minor stressors. These "microstressors" are the daily hassles that can all add up to create a stressful day.

"Microstressors" include:

  • Being cut off in traffic
  • Long lines at the grocery store
  • Misplacing keys
  • This list could go on and on, but no one has enough time to read it all!

"Causes of Stress" Top 10 List:

#1    Death of spouse
#2    Divorce
#3    Marital Separation
#4    Jail term
#5    Death of close family member (except spouse)
#6    Major personal injury or illness
#7    Marriage
#8    Being fired from work
#9    Marital reconciliation
#10  Retirement

So, what causes your stress? A common denominator in many stressful events seems to be change, either positive or negative. It's a matter of self-examination and deciding for yourself.

The first step in managing your stress is to identify your particular causes of stress. You have to know what you're dealing with in order to make changes.

I encourage you to take a closer look at your stress triggers by getting your free stress management workbook below. Then we'll get into some wonderful stress relief tools!

So, what's got you stressed out?

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As my friend was passing the elephants, he suddenly stopped, confused by the fact that these huge creatures were being held by only a small rope tied to their front leg. No chains, no cages. It was obvious that the elephants could, at anytime, break away from the ropes they were tied to but for some reason, they did not. My friend saw a trainer nearby and asked why these beautiful, magnificent animals just stood there and made no attempt to get away.

“Well,” he said, “when they are very young and much smaller we use the same size rope to tie them and, at that age, it’s enough to hold them. As they grow up, they are conditioned to believe they cannot break away. They believe the rope can still hold them, so they never try to break free.” My friend was amazed. These animals could at any time break free from their bonds but because they believed they couldn’t, they were stuck right where they were.

Like the elephants, how many of us go through life hanging onto a belief that we cannot do something, simply because we failed at it once before?

How many of us are being held back by old, outdated beliefs that no longer serve us? How many of us have avoided trying something new because of a limiting belief? Worse, how many of us are being held back by someone else’s limiting beliefs?

Whatever you can conceive and believe, you can achieve!
CHOOSE not to accept the false boundaries and limitations created by the past.