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Finding the Meaning of Life

Is it possible to find the meaning of life and be truly happy?

Meaning of Life:
Do what makes you happy? No, not really

"Do what makes you happy."

If you've ever felt unsatisfied with a job or any other personal or professional situation, you've probably heard that advice to death. However, this advice is not helpful, and it's also misguided.

In today's world, the pursuit of happiness is a deeply ingrained concept. We're taught to expect our lives to be fairly happy, and we're encouraged to do whatever it takes to achieve that.

But, as everything else in life, happiness isn't so simple.


What is happiness?


First of all, happiness refers to what you can get from others and your environment. In other words, you're happy when your material and emotional needs are fulfilled.


Take Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Outdated or not, it gives us an idea of what people need to be happy and the importance of each of those areas in our lives - from basic biological needs like food and shelter to more elevated needs like self-development and creativity.


However, fulfilling our needs doesn't always make us happy. And in many cases, that comes in direct conflict with the happiness we seek.
For example, a job that covers our basic needs for food, shelter, and security could be getting in the way of your need for creativity, flexibility, and freedom.


On top of that, we tend to think of happiness as static, as something you either have or don't. However, this isn't the case, at all. Instead, happiness is fluid and fleeting.


So, is the pursuit of happiness an illusion?


Not necessarily. Instead, to find that happiness, you need to redefine it, first.


We can redefine that happiness by making it broader -- it's not just about the nice feeling you get when your needs are met, or when you receive something pleasant from someone else. It's also about what you can give to others, and how giving gives you a purpose and a connection to your community.


To psychiatrist Viktor Frankl, giving helps you reaffirm your very humanity. It makes you forget yourself, and give yourself to the person in front of you.


Luckily, you don't have to change your entire routine to switch the focus from your own thoughts and needs to someone else's.


Meaning of Life:
Simple things you can do to start giving more


Listen

See every conversation as a chance to connect with a person. So, instead of just waiting for your turn to speak, pay attention to every word the other person is saying. Notice the tone of his voice, his body language. And don't forget to ask questions.


Build things for others

Can you knit, make origami figures, or draw? Make something and give it away. Never expect anything in return.


Volunteer

Take five minutes to think of what's important for you. What are your values? Is there a cause you'd like to champion? Do you have time or skills to give away to that cause?


Be kind

Make it a purpose to be kind to others every single day. Believe it or not, little acts of kindness have a contagious effect. Compliment someone. Notice if she did something with her hair. Help him with his groceries. Offer to do some extra work to help out a colleague.


Become a mentor

We all started somewhere. We've all been lost, confused, and tired. However, you have answers and insights that can help out someone starting out his journey.


By giving, you're creating connections with those around you. Life stops being just about seeking satisfaction and it takes on a deeper layer of commitment. Life is no longer all about you. It's about creating a positive effect on other people's lives.


When you engage in actions that transcend your own search for satisfaction, you make your life meaningful. You become part of a community. You assert your humanity. Moreover, you can be happier and more fulfilled.


Meaning of Life:
You're not alone

If you've ever wondered about the meaning of life, you are not alone. For thousands of years we've all been asking:

  • Why am I here?
  • What is my life for?
  • Where am I going?
  • What is the point?

Family, teachers, religious leaders, and influential members of society may all have influenced you (positively and negatively) as you began to ask these questions about the meaning of your own life.

And the fact that you are reading this now indicates that you are not altogether satisfied with the answers you have had so far, and are wondering if there is more. Or maybe you used to feel that life was full of meaning for you, but now find yourself lost and adrift.


Why is it so important to find meaning in life?

Although many people understand that you've got to have the basics (food, shelter, work, social connection, for example) in order to have any kind of a life, it's less commonly appreciated that a sense of meaning is also actually vital to our well-being.

We need to feel that our lives have a purpose and a direction that's worth striving for, worth devoting ourselves to. If we don't find this meaning, we can become depressed, or try to hide the emptiness from ourselves with drink, drugs, sex, shopping, etc.


The meaning of life - a cruel joke?

It's easy to become cynical. The aforementioned drink, drugs, sex and shopping can all give you the illusion that there is some meaning to what you are doing, because of the intensity of the experience. But as soon as you come down from the high, that emptiness encroaches again.

There is an answer

Victor Frankl, famous psychiatrist and writer, survived the hell of the concentration camps and made a study of what really makes it possible for people (including himself) to come through such experiences. In his powerful book Man's Search for Meaning he identifies meaning as the prime driver, more important even than pure survival, and has this to say:

"Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of his life is, but rather he must recognize that it is he who is asked."

He recognized that the "meaning of life" is not a ready-made commodity that you can pick off the shelf. You make the meaning by how you live.


How hypnosis can help you find the meaning of life for yourself

Nature has dictated the needs that we must satisfy to live well. And nature has also endowed us with the resources to get those needs met. The most dramatically powerful resource you have is your own unconscious mind. The Meaning of Life session will show you how you can let your own unconscious mind be your tutor.

Meaning of Life will get you deeply relaxed and in a state where your mind can really open itself up to the possibilities of living with meaning, right where you are now. It will help you stop looking in the wrong places and concentrate your attention where you can build your own true meaning. ~parts adapted from HypnosisDownloads.com


Meaning of Life:
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