Finding the Meaning of Life
Is it possible to find the meaning of life and be truly happy?
Meaning of Life:
Do what makes you happy? No, not really
"Do what makes you happy."
If you've ever felt unsatisfied
with a job or any other personal or professional situation, you've
probably heard that advice to death. However, this advice is not
helpful, and it's also misguided.
In today's world, the pursuit
of happiness is a deeply ingrained concept. We're taught to expect our
lives to be fairly happy, and we're encouraged to do whatever it takes
to achieve that.
But, as everything else in life, happiness isn't so simple.
What is happiness?
First of all, happiness refers to
what you can get from others and your environment. In other words,
you're happy when your material and emotional needs are fulfilled.
Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Outdated or not, it gives us an
idea of what people need to be happy and the importance of each of those
areas in our lives - from basic biological needs like food and shelter
to more elevated needs like self-development and creativity.
fulfilling our needs doesn't always make us happy. And in many cases,
that comes in direct conflict with the happiness we seek.
example, a job that covers our basic needs for food, shelter, and
security could be getting in the way of your need for creativity,
flexibility, and freedom.
On top of that, we tend to think of
happiness as static, as something you either have or don't. However,
this isn't the case, at all. Instead, happiness is fluid and fleeting.
So, is the pursuit of happiness an illusion?
Not necessarily. Instead, to find that happiness, you need to redefine it, first.
can redefine that happiness by making it broader -- it's not just about
the nice feeling you get when your needs are met, or when you receive
something pleasant from someone else. It's also about what you can give
to others, and how giving gives you a purpose and a connection to your
To psychiatrist Viktor Frankl, giving helps you
reaffirm your very humanity. It makes you forget yourself, and give
yourself to the person in front of you.
Luckily, you don't have to change your entire routine to switch the focus from your own thoughts and needs to someone else's.
Meaning of Life:
Simple things you can do to start giving more
See every conversation as a chance to connect with a person. So, instead of just waiting for your turn to speak, pay attention to every word the other person is saying. Notice the tone of his voice, his body language. And don't forget to ask questions.
Build things for others
Can you knit, make origami figures, or draw? Make something and give it away. Never expect anything in return.
Take five minutes to think of what's important for you. What are your values? Is there a cause you'd like to champion? Do you have time or skills to give away to that cause?
Make it a purpose to be kind to others every single day. Believe it or not, little acts of kindness have a contagious effect. Compliment someone. Notice if she did something with her hair. Help him with his groceries. Offer to do some extra work to help out a colleague.
Become a mentor
We all started somewhere. We've all been lost, confused, and tired. However, you have answers and insights that can help out someone starting out his journey.
By giving, you're creating connections with those around you. Life stops being just about seeking satisfaction and it takes on a deeper layer of commitment. Life is no longer all about you. It's about creating a positive effect on other people's lives.
When you engage in actions that transcend your own search for satisfaction, you make your life meaningful. You become part of a community. You assert your humanity. Moreover, you can be happier and more fulfilled.
Meaning of Life:
You're not alone
If you've ever wondered about the meaning of life, you are not alone. For thousands of years we've all been asking:
- Why am I here?
- What is my life for?
- Where am I going?
- What is the point?
Family, teachers, religious leaders, and influential members of
society may all have influenced you (positively and negatively)
as you began to ask these questions about the meaning of your own life.
And the fact that you are reading this now indicates that you are not
altogether satisfied with the answers you have had so far, and
are wondering if there is more. Or maybe you used to feel that life was
full of meaning for you, but now find yourself lost and adrift.
Why is it so important to find meaning in life?
Although many people understand that you've got to have the basics
(food, shelter, work, social connection, for example) in order to
have any kind of a life, it's less commonly appreciated that a sense of
meaning is also actually vital to our well-being.
We need to feel that our lives have a purpose and a direction
that's worth striving for, worth devoting ourselves to. If we
don't find this meaning, we can become depressed, or try to hide the
emptiness from ourselves with drink, drugs, sex, shopping, etc.
The meaning of life - a cruel joke?
It's easy to become cynical. The aforementioned drink, drugs, sex and shopping can all give you the illusion
that there is some meaning to what you are doing, because of the
intensity of the experience. But as soon as you come down from the
high, that emptiness encroaches again.
There is an answer
Victor Frankl, famous psychiatrist and writer, survived the hell of
the concentration camps and made a study of what really makes it
possible for people (including himself) to come through such
experiences. In his powerful book Man's Search for Meaning he identifies meaning as the prime driver, more important even than pure survival, and has this to say:
"Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of his life is, but rather he must recognize that it is he who is asked."
He recognized that the "meaning of life" is not a ready-made
commodity that you can pick off the shelf. You make the meaning
by how you live.
How hypnosis can help you find the meaning of life for yourself
Nature has dictated the needs that we must satisfy to live well. And
nature has also endowed us with the resources to get those needs
met. The most dramatically powerful resource you have is your own
unconscious mind. The Meaning of Life session will show you how you can let your own unconscious mind be your tutor.
Meaning of Life will get you deeply relaxed and in a state
where your mind can really open itself up to the possibilities of
living with meaning, right where you are now. It will help you stop
looking in the wrong places and concentrate your attention where
you can build your own true meaning. ~parts adapted from HypnosisDownloads.com
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