Relationship advice tip: Does your partner feel like the most important person in your life? Does your partner know how much you love them? Are you doing everything you can to show these things to your partner? If not, you can change things starting today. You don't have to wait for a certain moment, hour or day. Just make a few small changes in how you communicate with your partner and your partner will know just how important they are.
In order to be a better partner you have to make a conscious effort to make them feel loved and special. It's not that hard and it's just the simple things that make your partner swoon and love you even more.
Start by making the effort to simply tell your partner that you appreciate them. Everyone wants to feel like they are appreciated and your partner is no different. If your partner fixes the coffee in the morning for you both, just tell them you appreciate having coffee every morning. If they take out the trash when it gets full, tell them you appreciate it. Leave a little note of thanks when your partner does something, no matter how small the task was. If your partner is a good lover, for goodness sake, tell them you appreciate it. Again, it's just the simple things.
Show your partner that you always have their back. In life, sometimes there are things that come up where your partner feels completely alone and defeated. When that happens let them know you are on their side and you have their back. Tell them they did the right thing or handled the situation the best they could. Knowing you are on their side can make a huge difference in their life and yours too when it comes time for their support.
Another way to be a better partner is to listen when they talk. And that means to really listen when your partner talks. Make sure you understand their concerns and offer advice only if it's requested. Sometimes being able to vent to someone we love is enough for us to feel better. Work to be a good listener if it is something you aren't used to doing.
Enjoying your partner lets them know you care about them too. Have a good time together whenever you can. The more fun you have together the closer your bond will become. Find something that you both like to do and do it often. It will make you both feel happier as a couple and create a bond that isn't easily broken.
Always put your partner first - but take care of yourself, too! - and work to keep them happy, and I can promise you that your partner will begin to do the same thing. Work on the bonds that hold you together and enjoy each other every single day. Your relationship will stand the test of time when you appreciate the other person.
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Relationship Advice Tip: What happens when the first flush of love passes
But after you've been together for a while, you start to notice that the overwhelming nature of your love seems to have waned. You still love your partner and are still committed but a sameness can creep in. Maybe you find those enchanting little 'quirks' starting to grate or the everyday grind and external pressures conspire to pull you out of your private little world of love. You begin to wonder where the spark has gone.
Relationship Advice Tip: Cool times for once 'hot' relationships can be scary
It's easy to panic at this stage of a relationship. In the early heady days of first love, you feel like you and your partner can conquer anything with the power of your love. You feel as if you could never tire of each other's company. So when dull days dawn, and rows reverberate, and you wonder whatever happened to intimacy and sex, it can feel as if the world is falling. Have you made a dreadful mistake? Is it 'the end'?
Relationship Advice Tip: Misplaced expectations about love lead to disappointment
Two major problems affect relationships. The first is the unrealistic expectations we have of them. Some of that is natural to 'being in love'. It puts you on a high where you easily believe that you will always be able to keep the spark going in your relationship, because you love each other so much. But some of it comes from what we are fed about relationships by the romantic movies we watch or the books we read.
Relationship Advice Tip: Good relationships need good 'gardeners' of love
The second difficulty in keeping relationships rewarding, satisfying and fun is that we often don't do enough 'gardening'. We leave the relationship to 'take care of itself'. And any gardener will tell you that a garden left to itself will look lovely for a while and will then gradually deteriorate into a tangle of weeds and scrub. A place you wouldn't want to spend any time.
But just how do you set about 'cultivating' your relationship, ensuring that the flowers of love continue to bloom?
Relationship Advice Tip: Hypnosis can help you put the spark back in your relationship
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