Relationship sex advice: A lot of people who have been together for a long time tend to lose the intimacy that was once in their relationship. Jobs, kids or other responsibilities tend to get in the way of our relationships. That is our first mistake.
When I say intimacy, I'm not just talking about sex. Intimacy isn't always just sex related; it is being close to another person and enjoying being with them.
In order to maintain that intimacy in a relationship, it is important that the relationship be considered an important aspect of your life. If that stops, then the relationship will be on shaky ground.
Below are a few tips to help you keep the intimacy in your relationship...
Treat it as a priority. Make sure that no matter what else is going on in your life that your relationship is high on your priority list. You have to make it a priority.
Have a date night. Life can get very hectic with jobs and other responsibilities and just like you would schedule in any other appointment, schedule a date night every single week. It can change per week, but make sure you schedule one. Don't let anything else get in the way of your night out together.
Hold hands. You might think that's a little juvenile but if you keep holding hands, then there is a closeness that you all experience and that helps keep your relationship intimate.
Talk to each other. It's so easy for us to come home from our jobs and talk about nothing but work. It doesn't have to be that way. Try to leave work at work and talk about other things together. Talk about the things you want to do to the house, with each other - anything but work. We spend 8 hours each day at work. Who wants to spend another 4 hours after we get home talking about it?
Kiss each other passionately. It doesn't matter when or where you are just make sure when you kiss it's passionate. Don't just settle for that little peck on the cheek or forehead; kiss like you really mean it.
Show them you love them every day. The old saying, "Actions speak louder than words" really holds true in this case. You can tell someone that you love them a hundred times a day, but if you don't show them that you love them, will they really believe you? It doesn't have to be something huge that you do every day; it just has to be something. Make the coffee before you go to bed so that all they have to do is push the button to start it. Easy and simple stuff means the most to all of us.
No matter what you do in your life every single day make sure you devote time to your relationship so that it doesn't grow stagnant. We all know that relationships that aren't nurtured are the ones that eventually fizzle out and die. Don't let that happen to you.
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Relationship Advice: What happens when the first flush of love passes
But after you've been together for a while, you start to notice that the overwhelming nature of your love seems to have waned. You still love your partner and are still committed but a sameness can creep in. Maybe you find those enchanting little 'quirks' starting to grate or the everyday grind and external pressures conspire to pull you out of your private little world of love. You begin to wonder where the spark has gone.
Relationship Sex Advice: Cool times for once 'hot' relationships can be scary
It's easy to panic at this stage of a relationship. In the early heady days of first love, you feel like you and your partner can conquer anything with the power of your love. You feel as if you could never tire of each other's company. So when dull days dawn, and rows reverberate, and you wonder whatever happened to intimacy and sex, it can feel as if the world is falling. Have you made a dreadful mistake? Is it 'the end'?
Relationship Sex Advice: Misplaced expectations about love lead to disappointment
Two major problems affect relationships. The first is the unrealistic expectations we have of them. Some of that is natural to 'being in love'. It puts you on a high where you easily believe that you will always be able to keep the spark going in your relationship, because you love each other so much. But some of it comes from what we are fed about relationships by the romantic movies we watch or the books we read.
Relationship Sex Advice: Good relationships need good 'gardeners' of love
The second difficulty in keeping relationships rewarding, satisfying and fun is that we often don't do enough 'gardening'. We leave the relationship to 'take care of itself'. And any gardener will tell you that a garden left to itself will look lovely for a while and will then gradually deteriorate into a tangle of weeds and scrub. A place you wouldn't want to spend any time.
But just how do you set about 'cultivating' your relationship, ensuring that the flowers of love continue to bloom?
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