Sex Love Tips: Be the Best Lover You Can Be

Sex love tips: We tend to start out early in our lives believing what we should do in regard to being a good lover.  We've seen the romantic movies where the couple just falls into each other's arms and those great moves simply take over.  Well, as we've gotten older we realize things don't always happen that way, for whatever reason.  Those scenes are staged and in real life they simply don't happen that way.

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However, there are some ways that you can learn to be a better lover to your partner and it doesn't have to look like it does in the movies or on television.  Use the love you have for your partner as a gauge for your sex life.

Listen to what your partner tells you, or doesn't tell you.  If you do something right, changes are your partner will let you know.  Either by telling you outright or by the noises they make or the way they move.  If it works, keep doing it, but don't let it be the only thing you do.  Ask them what they want you to do and actually listen and do it.

Foreplay is key in any sexual encounter.  Not that I'm saying that a quickie is bad - it's not and can keep things hot between the two of you - but tapping into foreplay more often than not is extremely important.  For men and for women it can get things going a lot quicker than you think.  Women, don't think that in a man's world it's all about his penis.  There are many more ways to get him aroused!  Be creative.  And men, don't think you should just jump right into that vagina because chances are she's not going to be ready for you, and that leads to pain for her.

Take the time to touch each other all over and enjoy those touches.  Use your hands, your mouth or whatever you both choose to do.  Just do it.  Don't just swoop right in and think things are going to fall right into place.

Talk to your partner about what you like and ask them what it is they like.  If you don't talk about it you might be missing out on some really great sex with your partner.  If you get to know each other's bodies like you know your own then the sex you do have will be out of this world! That is important these days!

Make time for sex in your relationship.  Everyone is busy, but just like you have to make time to do the basic things in life, it is important to make time for sex.  It keeps a couple close to one another and helps them enjoy being with each other so much more.  If you have to, put it on your schedule and stick to it.  Don't let this type of intimacy fall by the wayside.

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Put the spark back in your relationship

There's nothing like being in love. It's the most entrancing thing in the world - you have eyes for no one but each other and your thoughts are filled with the one you love. You can't wait to be together and when you are together, it's as if a powerful magnet is pulling you ever closer. Surely there can be no greater happiness than to be with this person for ever and ever?

Sex Love Tips: What happens when the first flush of love passes

But after you've been together for a while, you start to notice that the overwhelming nature of your love seems to have waned. You still love your partner and are still committed but a sameness can creep in. Maybe you find those enchanting little 'quirks' starting to grate or the everyday grind and external pressures conspire to pull you out of your private little world of love. You begin to wonder where the spark has gone.

Sex Love Tips: Cool times for once 'hot' relationships can be scary

It's easy to panic at this stage of a relationship. In the early heady days of first love, you feel like you and your partner can conquer anything with the power of your love. You feel as if you could never tire of each other's company. So when dull days dawn, and rows reverberate, and you wonder whatever happened to intimacy and sex, it can feel as if the world is falling. Have you made a dreadful mistake? Is it 'the end'?

Sex Love Tips: Misplaced expectations about love lead to disappointment

Two major problems affect relationships.  The first is the unrealistic expectations we have of them. Some of that is natural to 'being in love'. It puts you on a high where you easily believe that you will always be able to keep the spark going in your relationship, because you love each other so much. But some of it comes from what we are fed about relationships by the romantic movies we watch or the books we read.

Sex Love Tips: Good relationships need good 'gardeners' of love

The second difficulty in keeping relationships rewarding, satisfying and fun is that we often don't do enough 'gardening'.  We leave the relationship to 'take care of itself'. And any gardener will tell you that a garden left to itself will look lovely for a while and will then gradually deteriorate into a tangle of weeds and scrub. A place you wouldn't want to spend any time.

But just how do you set about 'cultivating' your relationship, ensuring that the flowers of love continue to bloom?

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