The right relationship choices: Your relationship is one of the most important things you will ever have in your life but every day there are choices that will occur in that relationship. Some of the choices are small and some of them are extremely big ones. Regardless, are you making the right ones in your relationship? If not now, you might want to consider rethinking the relationship.
Do you pay attention to what your partner is saying to you or do you just blow them off and pretend to be listening when you really aren't? It's easy to take that person you are with for granted, but put yourself in their shoes. Would you want them to do that to you? Really choose to listen to your partner. You might be surprised at some of the things they say.
Do you say thank you when your partner does something nice for you? Do you say it when they take out the trash or load the dishwasher? If you don't, you should start. Let your partner know that the little things they do matter too. Make the choice to say thank you more often and chances are, your partner will begin to do more and more of those little things.
Do you always have to have the last word in an argument? Or do you sometimes agree to disagree with your partner? Being the one to walk away from an argument or disagreement will sometimes make you the bigger person. And when you agree to disagree with your partner it reduces the stress level and you can move on to something else. Choose to be the one who walks away and both of you will be happier for it in the end. It's ok if you don't always agree.
Do you and your partner still do things out of the blue? Do you just get up in the morning and decide to take a day trip to spend some time together? If not, you should. Doing things spur-of-the-moment will keep you both on your toes and will keep your relationship fresh. Choose to do something out of the ordinary once a week and your relationship will continue to grow.
Do you do things to take care of yourself and then feel guilty about it? Do you feel like you are taking time away from your partner when you do something on your own? If this is happening to you, you really need to make the choice to care for yourself without the guilt. I'll bet your partner doesn't feel guilty about it when he/she decides to do something on his/her own. We all need to take care of ourselves so that we can be a better partner and a better person.
Start today by choosing to do of few of these things mentioned and you will start to see changes, big and small, in your relationship. By making a few small changes in yourself and the way you think about your relationship, you are making the choice to be a good partner and the payoff from that might surprise you.
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The Right Relationship: What happens when the first flush of love passes
But after you've been together for a while, you start to notice that the overwhelming nature of your love seems to have waned. You still love your partner and are still committed but a sameness can creep in. Maybe you find those enchanting little 'quirks' starting to grate or the everyday grind and external pressures conspire to pull you out of your private little world of love. You begin to wonder where the spark has gone.
The Right Relationship: Cool times for once 'hot' relationships can be scary
It's easy to panic at this stage of a relationship. In the early heady days of first love, you feel like you and your partner can conquer anything with the power of your love. You feel as if you could never tire of each other's company. So when dull days dawn, and rows reverberate, and you wonder whatever happened to intimacy and sex, it can feel as if the world is falling. Have you made a dreadful mistake? Is it 'the end'?
The Right Relationship: Misplaced expectations about love lead to disappointment
Two major problems affect relationships. The first is the unrealistic expectations we have of them. Some of that is natural to 'being in love'. It puts you on a high where you easily believe that you will always be able to keep the spark going in your relationship, because you love each other so much. But some of it comes from what we are fed about relationships by the romantic movies we watch or the books we read.
The Right Relationship: Good relationships need good 'gardeners' of love
The second difficulty in keeping relationships rewarding, satisfying and fun is that we often don't do enough 'gardening'. We leave the relationship to 'take care of itself'. And any gardener will tell you that a garden left to itself will look lovely for a while and will then gradually deteriorate into a tangle of weeds and scrub. A place you wouldn't want to spend any time.
But just how do you set about 'cultivating' your relationship, ensuring that the flowers of love continue to bloom?
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