Top relationship advice: Sometimes when you get into a relationship with someone else you tend to put yourself on the back burner. It is vital in any relationship that you stay loyal to yourself first. If you are not your top priority, problems can arise in your relationship quickly.
In some cases you try so hard to please the person that you are with you don't please yourself and you lose who you are in the relationship. Being in love with someone doesn't mean that you have to follow the path they have chosen for themselves. It means that you follow your paths together - as a couple.
I know you want to do everything you can to make the life of your partner easy, but in the process are you doing things for them that make your life harder? If you are, then stop it. I'm not saying don't do things for your partner, but don't become resentful in the process. Resentment builds when life becomes all about someone else.
If you are in a good relationship then you shouldn't have any doubts about where your relationship stands. You should feel very secure in what is going on in your life because you have a partner who respects who you are as much as you do.
Have you given up everything that is important to you? Friends, family, fun times, education, or your dreams for your life? You shouldn't even think about doing any of that. The perfect love of your life will encourage you to continue to do all of the things you did before. They will accept you for who you are and not expect you to change.
Don't change for anyone and don't allow anyone to make you think you are "less than" in your relationship. You are your own best friend and taking care of yourself physically and mentally is the best thing you can do. Be who you are and enjoy a partner who enjoys that. Don't settle for anyone who wants you to be different than exactly who you are.
If you are doing all the things you think are right, is your partner doing the same thing for you? Is the relationship one-sided? If it is, you might want to rethink the relationship you are in because you have forgotten who it is that you are. Your partner has become your end-all-be-all, and you are getting absolutely nothing in return.
You support the love of your life and they support you. You can still do things that you love to do and your partner can still do the things they love to do. The important thing is that you meet in the middle to do things as a couple and care for each other's needs as separate people.
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Top Relationship Advice: What happens when the first flush of love passes
But after you've been together for a while, you start to notice that the overwhelming nature of your love seems to have waned. You still love your partner and are still committed but a sameness can creep in. Maybe you find those enchanting little 'quirks' starting to grate or the everyday grind and external pressures conspire to pull you out of your private little world of love. You begin to wonder where the spark has gone.
Top Relationship Advice: Cool times for once 'hot' relationships can be scary
It's easy to panic at this stage of a relationship. In the early heady days of first love, you feel like you and your partner can conquer anything with the power of your love. You feel as if you could never tire of each other's company. So when dull days dawn, and rows reverberate, and you wonder whatever happened to intimacy and sex, it can feel as if the world is falling. Have you made a dreadful mistake? Is it 'the end'?
Top Relationship Advice: Misplaced expectations about love lead to disappointment
Two major problems affect relationships. The first is the unrealistic expectations we have of them. Some of that is natural to 'being in love'. It puts you on a high where you easily believe that you will always be able to keep the spark going in your relationship, because you love each other so much. But some of it comes from what we are fed about relationships by the romantic movies we watch or the books we read.
Top Relationship Advice: Good relationships need good 'gardeners' of love
The second difficulty in keeping relationships rewarding, satisfying and fun is that we often don't do enough 'gardening'. We leave the relationship to 'take care of itself'. And any gardener will tell you that a garden left to itself will look lovely for a while and will then gradually deteriorate into a tangle of weeds and scrub. A place you wouldn't want to spend any time.
But just how do you set about 'cultivating' your relationship, ensuring that the flowers of love continue to bloom?
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